Beyond and above all selfishness, there’s a free zone of
goodness and positivity. But to reach that outer space one has to propel past
from woes, worries, vices and all the negativity. Often the situations grip you
and might hijack your brain, draining all your energies and directing them
towards situations not under your control. Stop, detach and cut your emotions
that very moment. Align all issues at hand in points. Analyze and prioritize
them for a solution each. List out all possible solutions. See what and how
much is workable and under your control. And finally sort out those
problem-solution combos that are in contradiction.
All this might require a great deal of your rationale mind
and lot more energy to stop your already-on-roll negativity. It is like
changing the current of your thought streams. If need be, jot them on a piece
of paper or use the voice recorder on your phone. If comfortable chat it out
with a friend or think of it as someone else’s problem because most of us are
good at solving it for others, but unable to clear it out for self; which is
fine and normal, like a doctor can’t operate a dear one of their own, similarly
we too get emotionally involved and surrounded by love for our life.
We keep staring at the path that we wanted our life to take
and instead we miss out on the other opening that awaits us. Though that other
opening might have a flicker of light guiding you or could be a path packed
with sheer darkness, but have faith in what you have asked for and when you
ask, ask sensibly and with full belief. Things will move, they might take some
time, but soon they will reach you and fill the missing blocks of your life
when it actually must.
